I’ve always entertained the idea of starting a “gratitude” journal, or a five minute morning journal, or starting up a morning routine. I’ve never really had a morning routine at all. and well, I think I’ve done just fine so far without one, yet I’ve been hearing how it’s the trend and has been so useful to almost everyone who’s tried it, especially those podcasters like Pat Flynn and what not.
Also, note I’ve never been much of a “written daily planner” person since I always have a knack of keeping things scheduled and organized in my head – and when there is a super important event I usually put it in my phone calendar.
BUT, I have since started a new job with a lot of varied projects and the need to keep things a little organized. I decided one day a couple months ago that purchased this Self journal with the anticipation that I could use it as a morning journal, as an evening journal, and as a way to plan out my day.
I , too, bought into the idea that I would get a huge amount of satisfaction and just more grounding through being able to reflect on my day morning and night, and being able to plan out my schedule and write my biggest goals and targets.
I used it religiously for about a couple of weeks, trying to make an effort to write in it while having breakfast, remembering to bring it with me to bed to write my pieces of gratitude at bedtime, and trying to plan and schedule out my day.
Let me say that, if you were never a person that used a written planner to write out your schedule. this book will certainly NOT convert you into one because you start using it. I found that this book/journal.
while a fantastic idea for some people, is simply just not for me. It’s a bit too restrictive to have the same requirement each day. I feel I never have too much in my days going on to write anything in the scheduling section, and a lot of the tasks that I do are constantly changed and flexible.
so I feel it’s a blank waste of space on some days and can never feel satisfied with how to block and schedule things in. The book left me feeling guilty of having blank and empty sections because I simply don’t have the content to fill in the sections without overly repeating myself when I don’t need to.
What if, on some days, I feel like writing MORE than the three things of gratitude? Or just journaling any sort of thoughts that come into my head regardless of if they relate to gratitude or not? What if on some days, I really have more than just one goal? Or just ONE target? Also, is there not a place to just have a brain dump to just list down and write all of the tasks and things I eventually want to do someday but find it not feasible to just have it scheduled in yet? Unfortunately, after about 3-4 weeks I resorted to just finding a regular BLANK Moleskine notebook, dating the top, and just using it as a freeform notebook.
Write whatever I want and take up however much space I want, and not feel guilty if I leave any sections or spaces blank because I simply do not have the content to fill that day. It’s kind of stupid to have sections of a notebook there when you don’t need to use them.
It’s like scheduling a weekly meeting for the sake of just having a weekly meeting and repeating all the same stuff you’ve done over before in other meetings, instead of scheduling meetings only when it’s necessary to have a meeting, so it doesn’t end up wasting everyone’s time.
If I want to write down gratitude in it, then fine, I will. But unfortunately this SELF journal is just too restricting for my needs and doesn’t really allow me the flexibility to write down what matters most to me.
I love writing, and I agree that putting pen to paper on ideas gives a satisfaction and a “realness” to things as opposed to just using digital or virtual means. BUT I unfortunately found this book just wasn’t for me.
It might work for some people, but I can’t sustain this restriction in the long term.